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It’s worth clearing up one thing first: traditional Tantra isn’t primarily about sex. But in modern “neo-Tantra,” sexuality is used as one pathway for awareness and connection - with oneself or with a partner. Here are the core ideas when Tantra is applied to sexuality: Presence over performance The focus shifts away from goals (like orgasm) toward being fully aware of sensations, emotions, and connection in the moment. Attention is treated as the main “practice.” Slowness and intentionality Movements, touch, and even breathing are slowed down. This isn’t just aesthetic—it helps increase sensitivity and deepen awareness. Breath as a tool...

One of the advantages of strap-on sex is that one can easily change out the size, shape, and density of the dildo to cater to the receptive partner's particular tastes. When shopping for a dildo, try not to let your eyes get too big for you or your lover's actual comfort zone. If unsure, it's best to err on the side of too small rather than too big. Too large of a dildo can be painful. Also, keep in mind that a large squishy dildo will feel quite different than a large firm one. Other factors include curves, textures, and girth as well as length. It's not uncommon to have several different types of dildos in the toy box for various moods and appetites.

By Ally Booker Strap-on sex refers to a wide variety of sexual activity that includes strapping on a dildo—usually with some sort of harness. The benefits include, but are not limited to, the ability to add extra appendages to your lovemaking, enabling more intimate body-to-body contact, and experiencing simultaneous genital pleasure. Many folks assume that this style of sex is "lesbian" sex. Incorrect. Not all lesbians engage in this type of sexual activity, and the largest market for strap-on harnesses are, in fact, heterosexual couples. Many people of all genders benefit from this form of play. Benefits of Strap-On Play...

Binding is a gender-affirming practice that refers to flattening or compressing the chest to create a more masculine appearance. This is commonly done by folks who are assigned female at birth (AFAB) and are transitioning to a male or non-binary gender identity.

By Erin Voss   Jellywink carries all sorts of toys and tools that can be enjoyed by folks of all genders and bodies, alone or with a lover. Penis rings, aka cock rings or c-rings, are an example of a toy (and a tool) that can greatly enhance both solo and partnered sex.    The primary function of a c-ring is to keep blood in the penis, making it harder and girthier. This makes them a great tool for folks that experience erectile unpredictability (and for their partners), but anyone with a dick can benefit from trying one. Cock rings can...