Jellywink Blog — Strap-on

One of the advantages of strap-on sex is that one can easily change out the size, shape, and density of the dildo to cater to the receptive partner's particular tastes. When shopping for a dildo, try not to let your eyes get too big for you or your lover's actual comfort zone. If unsure, it's best to err on the side of too small rather than too big. Too large of a dildo can be painful. Also, keep in mind that a large squishy dildo will feel quite different than a large firm one. Other factors include curves, textures, and girth as well as length. It's not uncommon to have several different types of dildos in the toy box for various moods and appetites.

By Ally Booker Strap-on sex refers to a wide variety of sexual activity that includes strapping on a dildo—usually with some sort of harness. The benefits include, but are not limited to, the ability to add extra appendages to your lovemaking, enabling more intimate body-to-body contact, and experiencing simultaneous genital pleasure. Many folks assume that this style of sex is "lesbian" sex. Incorrect. Not all lesbians engage in this type of sexual activity, and the largest market for strap-on harnesses are, in fact, heterosexual couples. Many people of all genders benefit from this form of play. Benefits of Strap-On Play...